What to Say in a Text to a Girl – Come Up With the Best Texts Possible

Learning what to say in a text to a girl is very important because a single wrong word through text could easily ruin your chances with her altogether. Since the majority of guys out there don’t know what to say in a text to a girl, though, they end up sending safe and neutral texts that just say hi. Unfortunately, texts like this are boring and won’t elicit any positive responses in girls.

You need to know that the way a girl replies to your text will greatly depend on how you come up with your texts to begin with. Now, this doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to channel your inner poet to win a girl over. However, you will need to understand how female minds work before you can learn what to say in a text to a girl, in general.

For starters, you should know that girls respond best to feelings because feelings excite them easily. How can you create excitement in a girl, though? Well, it’s simple. Just use smart compliments and action words whenever you compose your text messages. These things can easily turn a boring text into something flirtatious and fun. Here are some examples for you to study.

“What sort of fun things do you do?”

This kind of text is good because it will make her think of fun things, like watching movies, bowling, ice skating and swimming. Besides, this question is a great way to set up your texts to asking her out, as well. Plus, you can find out what she likes and get an idea of what you should do when you finally ask her out on a date.

“So, what else do you do, aside from charming off the pants of guys called [insert your name here]?”

This is probably the best text to send a girl if you want to win her over. Not only are you subtly complimenting her for being charming, but you are also finding out more about her at the same time. Plus, this text is a bit flirty, so she will definitely know that you are interested in her.

Learning what to say in a text to a girl will definitely take some practice since there are a lot of different ways you can capture a girl’s interest this way. However, if you successfully learn how to come up with interesting and creative texts, then you will end up having an easier time winning girls over from now on.

How to Give a Girl Extreme Orgasms! Surprisingly, Most People Don’t Even Know This

The extreme orgasms will happen only if your foreplay goes right. You should be able to arouse a girl to heights of pleasure by the mind blowing foreplay you engage in.

The more variation in the foreplay and the positions and the style the more the ecstasy you will build in her and the better will she orgasm.

Stroking the arms and legs- The first place to stroke is the arm. Run your fingers along the length of each arm. Stroke also the inner sides of her arms and the palms. These portions are quite sensitive.

Stroke her down the entire length of the legs. The feet too are quite sensitive. Only make sure the stroking does not become too ticklish for her to bear.

Fondling of the breasts- Gently stroke each mound of the breast in a circular motion. Brush your fingers past the nipples but do not tweeze them yet.

After some time of massaging the breasts then tweeze the nipples between two fingers. You could also use the tongue as a variation.

Take the nipple into your mouth now and fondle it gently.

The clitoris and the vagina- Once she’s fairly aroused through fondling of the breasts and nipples, it’s time to shift your attention to the vaginal area.

Tickle and stroke the clitoris and the vaginal lips for that mind blowing ecstasy that is continually on the rise. Use the tongue here too for more variation in stimulation.

The g spot stimulation- While at the clitoris and vaginal lips slip your finger in and out of the vaginal channel to keep the area stimulated. Use your finger sometimes and the penis alternately to probe the vaginal channel.

Once you’ve found and located the g spot stimulate that in a ‘come hither’ motion with your palm facing upwards.

That will provide the final strokes for the extreme orgasms you give her.

Should You Just Be Yourself Around Girls?

What most men don’t understand is when they say to themselves

“I’ll just be myself and see how it goes” is that they are setting themselves up for immediate failure with women.

Unless you’re a complete natural with women and you know your game is going to work.. “Winging it or being yourself” just doesn’t work…but if you’re that guy then this site is probably not for you anyways.

When you’re just gonna be yourself that pretty much means you’re going to just wing it.

It really has nothing to do with being yourself. It’s actually just the easy way out because then you don’t have to learn anything new about dating, pick up and relationships.

Why talk to a girl at all if you have no purpose, intent, plan, or reason why you are talking to that girl.

What if when it came to running your business you said “I’m just going to be myself and see if anyone buys my product.” Your business would probably blow, because you have no business plan, processes, and no ways to bring in new customers.

All you’re counting on is pure luck.

You’ll always be reactive to whatever she says to you instead of being proactive and truly playing the game.See what most guys don’t get is that “yourself” or your character will shine through on your non-verbal channels almost all the time. Plus, there’s plenty of room for you to be yourself, just within certain steps and format of what is going to be socially, mentally and physically pleasing to your target.

And girls will find you much more attractive when you are yourself which basically means you don’t let her control your responses. Or to be more technical don’t just be a conformist to try to get her to like you.

When she says:

“I like this song”

Do you say “me to”or…

“This song sucks” because you actually think the song sucks?

Finally, I just want to finish off with a thought from one of my favorite comedians Katt Williams. He talks about how when people say “don’t let the money change you”

And he goes on to explain why the hell would you want more money if you didn’t want something to change. When I started learning how to pick up girls I wasn’t like “I just want to be myself” because it was just a cop out.

I wanted to be changed. More able to pick up more girls, faster, hotter, and easier. Be more confident, happier, and be able to manage relationships.

You can stay true to all your beliefs, morals, and opinions, just want to be changed if you really really want to get better in this area of your life.

Later fellas,

Cole M.