How To Get Confidence Chatting To Girls, How To Get Girls To Run To You Not Away From You

Would you like to know how to get confidence chatting to girls. The most common reason men don’t approach women it the fear of rejection, low confidence prevents many men from walking up to the girl of their dreams and asking her out.

They are crippled by fear of rejection, they don’t know the right things to say and their nerves make them feel ill.

One good thing is that you can do something about this and you are willing to learn. It will take some effort, you will have to step outside your comfort zone to build confidence but the end result will be worth it.

Remove the Pedestal. Don’t put women on pedestal. They are human too, just because they are beautiful and perfect on the outside does not mean they do not suffer from the same insecurities as everyone else. Don’t think she is too beautiful for you or that she would never want to go out with you. Think of all the good qualities you have, believe that you can have and deserve to have any girl you want. Women love confidence, until you build your confidence act as if you have it.

Getting Over The Nerves. When you are nervous, the body sends the blood to the legs and arms for the fight or flight response. The blood is being transferred away for the stomach and all internal organs giving the feeling of the stomach churning or butterflies. This is a chemically reaction and happens to every one.

There are two ways to counteract this reaction.

Get out of your comfort zone. Keep chatting to girls until it is second nature. Set yourself a target, you will talk to every woman you meet for 5 minutes, every day for two months. Young, old, fat, slim, ugly, beautiful, talk to every woman like she is your best friend.

Initially this will seem difficult but by the end of two months you will have conquered your nerves and build your confidence in chatting to girls.

Learn to Channel the Nerves. Some one shared this method with me once and I have used it many time to help me control the butterflies. You know now that it is an automatic response of the body to send the blood flow away form internal organ to the external limbs. There are many time where you will feel nervous and the butterflies will be churning in your stomach. Imagine the butterflies are flying in formation across your stomach.

Now you can use them to channel the nerves in a positive way making you more alert.

It will take practice to build your confidence. What are you confident at doing, how did you become that way? Usually it takes practice to do things automatically and with confidence. Transfer the skills you used to gain confidence in one area to other areas in your life, and you will be amazed how confident you will become.

Item Girls and Cheerleaders!

The buzzword nowadays is marketing, in all forms of products and services. For marketability you need loads of glamor quotients that generate the required publicity or the desired hype. And as always, glamor is closely associated with beautiful women.

Creativity in marketing amounts to an uncanny ability of the advertisers to link everything under the sun to beautiful women or hot girls. East or west, this women-centric perception of glamorization is growing. There has to be a distinct success quotient associated with this process, else the progression would not go on.

Indian cinema in the Hindi language, popularly known as Bollywood covering mostly mainstream movies, has been the glamor storehouse with its heroes, heroines, vamps, villains and elaborately choreographed song and dance sequences. For obvious glamor reasons Bollywood had been increasing its links with the fashion industry too in recent times. Models are game always for both heroines and vamps in movies and they are the quickest to get established in the film world.

The Bollywood producers and directors want to generate maximum publicity and hype particularly before big movie releases. So, they have often adopted the concept ‘item numbers’ which means a technocratic and madly orchestrated dance sequence. This particular sequence has no relevance to or bearing on the main plot, the only motive being more effective marketing. The lead dancers in the ‘item numbers’ is called ‘item girls’.

Item numbers have created a distinct profession of item girls who may or may not ultimately become leading ladies. But doused in glamor they are hugely successful in terms of money, career and exposure. Basically an item girl, Rakhi Sawant has become a raging sensation in India thanks to her reality shows on television one of which even featured Rakhi as a prospective bride and married her off before the whole nation.

With millions of cricket lovers around Indian Cricket is marketed most aggressively by the richest cricket board of the world, the Board of Control for Cricket in India (BCCI), and it was just a matter of time before Cricket and Movies sized each other up. A mutually inclusive relationship started between them and that led to mega movie stars watching live cricket matches getting a lot of attention from the glamor hunting media while movies started having stories plotted on cricket. For glamor marketing enough was never enough though.

Like the normally three-hour Bollywood movies, the BCCI invented the Indian Premiere League (IPL) in the shortest T20 format of cricket where matches get completed in exactly three hours. Such cricket movies have to be showered with glamor. So, the BCCI introduced cheerleaders in IPL matches. Cheerleaders are basically athletic and attractive girls who cheer on every major happening in a cricket match by dancing and gesticulating ferociously. Essentially the cheerleaders substituted for the item girls of movies. Aroused by the holy mix and an ‘understanding’ cricket board top entertainment TV channels in India started bidding for major cricket tournaments including the World Cup with the express aim of staging attractive female anchor-commentators, star guests and various glamor-mongering on-field activities.

In the next stage of glamor marketing we could definitely hope to see a mutual mega-mix of models, item girls and cheerleaders. Cheers!

Find Out How to Get a Girl Back – Don’t Miss This

If you are spending sleepless nights wondering over to find out some of the reasons of your break up and why you’re beloved left you, you need to take advanced steps now. This was the same situation of mine after getting ditched by Veronica. Veronica and me were together for years and had strong feelings for each other. No doubt when love ends it hurts a lot. But now you can have a way to win back your love in order to bring back all the happiness of the life.

After losing Veronica what I did was really not advisable. I went into depression for quite a long period of time as I was alone apart from my family so had no option rather to be alone. On the other hand in those days I was not able to face anyone as I was so much humiliated and ashamed of myself. Then one of my friends visited me and advised me to stop pitting on your self. It was the time when I became serious to get my girlfriend back in my life.

My friend suggested me to get proper knowledge to how to achieve your girl back through any reliable source of information. In turn I bought some of the helping books on love, romance and relationships moreover I looked up online sites to avail their services by sitting at home. And you won’t believe I really got wealthy advises from online channels on keeping my girl stay with me forever. These sites referred me to follow up the illustrated steps: I was required to keep my confidence level up, meanwhile safeguarding my self respect. Secondly what I learnt from online modes was to remain steadfast.

As the procedures involved in getting a girl back are little lengthy and time consuming so you need to be consistent. The online sites would cost you in the range of $20 to $30. And the results of these sites would be something more than your expectations. If still you are not satisfied with the information given in the article, you can log on to any reliable site to get your problems solved.