Get Rid of Your Fears and Finally Attract the Girls That You Like

Would you like to learn how to finally attract the girls that you like? Well, truth be told, this will entirely depend on you. While there are a ton of different methods on attracting girls out there, it would really be best not to depend on these approaches and just focus on yourself instead.

To start, think about why you always get rejected by girls. Is it because you don’t try? Is it because you give up every time you get upset after a rejection? Generally speaking, if you keep failing in the dating department, then you are probably lacking in both faith and confidence. This is usually what brings about the fear of rejection and fear of success to begin with.

If you want to finally attract the girls that you like, but are terribly scared of rejection, then you need to change things around as soon as possible. If you tend to play rejection scenes in your head before you even approach a girl, then you have to remind yourself that the real world doesn’t work like that just because you experienced a few rejections in the past. Besides, if you don’t let girls downsize you, then they won’t be able to. It’s as simple as that.

Even if you have a fear of success, on the other hand, you still won’t be able to finally attract the girls that you like. If you tend to look at girls and instantly envision a future, wherein you end up in a relationship and she breaks your heart eventually, then it isn’t any wonder why you are failing with girls.

In fact, no matter what kind of fear you suffer from; if it is stopping you from approaching girls and winning them over, then you have to make some changes in your life. Think about why you let your negative thoughts control you and figure out how you can get rid of your fear.

While a fear of failure may save you from instant pain of rejection, it will also stop you from experiencing any happiness that a loving and meaningful relationship may bring you. On that note, a fear of success may save you from future heartbreak, but it will also stop you from having relationships to begin with. If you really want to finally attract the girls that you like, then the best thing to do would be to channel your subliminal mind and the female subliminal mind and control them from within to get the results that you want.

How to Get Your Girl Back With 7 Critical Tips

You and your girl had a big fight and she has decided to break up with you and has walked out. You realize, you want to get your girl back but don’t know how to do it. Here are some tips and suggestions to help you get your girl back.

1. Reach Out

Sounds simple, but it’s not so simple. She is angry and will play hard to get. That does not mean you should stop calling her or reaching out to her. Continue to try reaching out to her in all possible ways and keep the effort going.

2. No Dating

Don’t try to date other girls or surround yourselves with girls. By doing so, the only message you will be sending is, you did not care for her enough. If you seriously want to get your girl back, then don’t even think of trying to make her jealous. It will backfire on you.

3. Don’t forget important days

Don’t forget important days such as her birthday or anniversaries. Girls remember such things and expect their guy to remember too. If she has walked out, don’t stop sending her gifts and flowers on these important occasions. You will not only make her feel special but will also get your girl back soon.

4. Call her often

Keep the communication channels open. Call her often and tell her how much you miss her and wish you were here kind of messages. She will melt and coming back to you, once she realizes how much you love and care for her.

5. Don’t play games

Don’t play any sinister games. If you seriously want to get your girl back, then show genuine feelings. Don’t use flowery words or poems you don’t mean. For once try to say what is truly in your heart honestly. Your girl will appreciate your honesty more than flowery poems.

6. Apologize

There is nothing like a genuine apology. If you feel you were wrong. Then apologize for your bad behavior and promise not to repeat such appalling behavior in future. If you apology is genuine she will forgive you and give another chance to your relationship.

7. Woo her back

Renew your relationship. One way to get your girl back is to begin the relationship anew. Go on dates, visit her favorite spots. Spend quality time. Understand her needs and her expectations. Relationships are two way partnerships and each partner has to contribute to make a relationship work and successful. Involve her in your decisions concerning the relationship. Tell her your feelings as often as possible and sooner than you realize, you will get your girl back and love will enter your relationship to stay there forever.

Should You Just Be Yourself Around Girls?

What most men don’t understand is when they say to themselves

“I’ll just be myself and see how it goes” is that they are setting themselves up for immediate failure with women.

Unless you’re a complete natural with women and you know your game is going to work.. “Winging it or being yourself” just doesn’t work…but if you’re that guy then this site is probably not for you anyways.

When you’re just gonna be yourself that pretty much means you’re going to just wing it.

It really has nothing to do with being yourself. It’s actually just the easy way out because then you don’t have to learn anything new about dating, pick up and relationships.

Why talk to a girl at all if you have no purpose, intent, plan, or reason why you are talking to that girl.

What if when it came to running your business you said “I’m just going to be myself and see if anyone buys my product.” Your business would probably blow, because you have no business plan, processes, and no ways to bring in new customers.

All you’re counting on is pure luck.

You’ll always be reactive to whatever she says to you instead of being proactive and truly playing the game.See what most guys don’t get is that “yourself” or your character will shine through on your non-verbal channels almost all the time. Plus, there’s plenty of room for you to be yourself, just within certain steps and format of what is going to be socially, mentally and physically pleasing to your target.

And girls will find you much more attractive when you are yourself which basically means you don’t let her control your responses. Or to be more technical don’t just be a conformist to try to get her to like you.

When she says:

“I like this song”

Do you say “me to”or…

“This song sucks” because you actually think the song sucks?

Finally, I just want to finish off with a thought from one of my favorite comedians Katt Williams. He talks about how when people say “don’t let the money change you”

And he goes on to explain why the hell would you want more money if you didn’t want something to change. When I started learning how to pick up girls I wasn’t like “I just want to be myself” because it was just a cop out.

I wanted to be changed. More able to pick up more girls, faster, hotter, and easier. Be more confident, happier, and be able to manage relationships.

You can stay true to all your beliefs, morals, and opinions, just want to be changed if you really really want to get better in this area of your life.

Later fellas,

Cole M.