How to Get a Girl to Desperately Want to Sleep With You

This is probably the biggest question that every man has – to get a girl to sleep with him! After all, this is what ‘seduction’ is all about – getting her into the bedroom. While many men seem to struggle in this area, master seducers have known the secrets to making any woman want to sleep with them. Read on to discover the secret techniques that they use and achieve mind blowing results fast…

How To Get A Girl To Desperately Want To Sleep With You – Three Essential Steps

Step 1. Build Attraction. This might be just a little tad obvious, but it is surprising how many men miss this completely. In order to make a girl want to sleep with you, you must first make her feel attracted to you in the first place.

The biggest mistake that a man can make is to make her feel COMFORTABLE with (instead of ATTRACTED to) them. If they are comfortable without any attraction, they will relegate you into the ‘friend‘ zone – not pleasant!

Step 2. Build “Dissonance”. This is where my method departs from the others you may get from other ‘dating gurus’ – once you have built attraction, then you will need to make her feel ‘confused’. You must make her feel frustrated – which is then translated into sexual desire and energy. This is why ‘make up sex’ often is great – because all the anger is channeled into the sex!

How do you build ‘dissonance‘ then? Easy. Tease her and be slightly challenging. Be aware that you do not need to come across as cocky – just show that you have your own opinions, and you do not need to suck up to her at all.

Step 3. Fractionation. This is the final step where you bring her through an emotional rollercoaster, so that she experiences both sad and happy states. In the process she will be made emotionally dependent on you. This is done through associating her happy states to you – thus making her ‘addicted’ to you emotionally.

Once you have done the three steps, it is trivial to get her to sleep with you – in fact she  will often drag you to bed!