How to Get a Girl to Desperately Want to Sleep With You

This is probably the biggest question that every man has – to get a girl to sleep with him! After all, this is what ‘seduction’ is all about – getting her into the bedroom. While many men seem to struggle in this area, master seducers have known the secrets to making any woman want to sleep with them. Read on to discover the secret techniques that they use and achieve mind blowing results fast…

How To Get A Girl To Desperately Want To Sleep With You – Three Essential Steps

Step 1. Build Attraction. This might be just a little tad obvious, but it is surprising how many men miss this completely. In order to make a girl want to sleep with you, you must first make her feel attracted to you in the first place.

The biggest mistake that a man can make is to make her feel COMFORTABLE with (instead of ATTRACTED to) them. If they are comfortable without any attraction, they will relegate you into the ‘friend‘ zone – not pleasant!

Step 2. Build “Dissonance”. This is where my method departs from the others you may get from other ‘dating gurus’ – once you have built attraction, then you will need to make her feel ‘confused’. You must make her feel frustrated – which is then translated into sexual desire and energy. This is why ‘make up sex’ often is great – because all the anger is channeled into the sex!

How do you build ‘dissonance‘ then? Easy. Tease her and be slightly challenging. Be aware that you do not need to come across as cocky – just show that you have your own opinions, and you do not need to suck up to her at all.

Step 3. Fractionation. This is the final step where you bring her through an emotional rollercoaster, so that she experiences both sad and happy states. In the process she will be made emotionally dependent on you. This is done through associating her happy states to you – thus making her ‘addicted’ to you emotionally.

Once you have done the three steps, it is trivial to get her to sleep with you – in fact she  will often drag you to bed!

How To Get Confidence Chatting To Girls, How To Get Girls To Run To You Not Away From You

Would you like to know how to get confidence chatting to girls. The most common reason men don’t approach women it the fear of rejection, low confidence prevents many men from walking up to the girl of their dreams and asking her out.

They are crippled by fear of rejection, they don’t know the right things to say and their nerves make them feel ill.

One good thing is that you can do something about this and you are willing to learn. It will take some effort, you will have to step outside your comfort zone to build confidence but the end result will be worth it.

Remove the Pedestal. Don’t put women on pedestal. They are human too, just because they are beautiful and perfect on the outside does not mean they do not suffer from the same insecurities as everyone else. Don’t think she is too beautiful for you or that she would never want to go out with you. Think of all the good qualities you have, believe that you can have and deserve to have any girl you want. Women love confidence, until you build your confidence act as if you have it.

Getting Over The Nerves. When you are nervous, the body sends the blood to the legs and arms for the fight or flight response. The blood is being transferred away for the stomach and all internal organs giving the feeling of the stomach churning or butterflies. This is a chemically reaction and happens to every one.

There are two ways to counteract this reaction.

Get out of your comfort zone. Keep chatting to girls until it is second nature. Set yourself a target, you will talk to every woman you meet for 5 minutes, every day for two months. Young, old, fat, slim, ugly, beautiful, talk to every woman like she is your best friend.

Initially this will seem difficult but by the end of two months you will have conquered your nerves and build your confidence in chatting to girls.

Learn to Channel the Nerves. Some one shared this method with me once and I have used it many time to help me control the butterflies. You know now that it is an automatic response of the body to send the blood flow away form internal organ to the external limbs. There are many time where you will feel nervous and the butterflies will be churning in your stomach. Imagine the butterflies are flying in formation across your stomach.

Now you can use them to channel the nerves in a positive way making you more alert.

It will take practice to build your confidence. What are you confident at doing, how did you become that way? Usually it takes practice to do things automatically and with confidence. Transfer the skills you used to gain confidence in one area to other areas in your life, and you will be amazed how confident you will become.

Emily Booth of The Horror Channel

Emily Booth is more popularly known as the glamorous, dark-haired TV presenter of The Horror Channel.

Emily was born in Chester, England in 1976 but grew up in Hastings, East Sussex. Her paternal great grandfather built one of the first cinemas in the UK in Cornwall. It is now a garage, but still has a plaque on the wall marking its significance. Emily studied for 3 A levels and a BA in media and film degree at Goldsmiths College, University of London. While she was a student she earned money busking in the street playing the violin and sang on Eurotrash. She once worked in PR for the London based Salvation Films. She used to be an avid animal rights campaigner and keeps pet rats.

In 2011 she gave birth to her first child, Betty Seren Booth-Walters.

Emily is known for her roles in such cult films as Pervirella, Cradle of Fear, Evil Aliens, and BAFTA nominated short film Inferno. She also appeared in Quentin Tarantino and Robert Rodriquez’s double header Grindhouse (2007) in the mock trailer “Don’t”, by Edgar Wright (director of Shaun of the Dead).

Emily was also the host of several Channel 4 and satellite television shows. She co-presented and co-wrote video game review show BITS for two years. She was a segment presenter on Channel 4 flagship morning show The Big Breakfast, and also presented on the gameshow Banzai for E4. Other shows she worked on include L!VE TV’s Blue Review, paintball challenge show Mission: Paintball, Threesome and Demolition.

Emily has presented several television programmes related to cult films, including OUT There on five and Shock Movie Massacre on Bravo. Emily is a presenter on Eat Cinema, interviewing A-list Hollywood stars on The Buzz and hosting her own show First Night Bites. She also hosted the now defunct Quiz Night Live, a premium rate call-in quiz show, shown on satellite/Freeview channel Ftn. She is presents The Match on the on XLeague.tvchannel. In 2007 she joined Zone Horror where she works as a presenter and continuity announcer.

She was among the guests at the 2009 Festival of Fantastic Films in Manchester and announced the results of the Delta Film Award. She also hosted GoreZone Magazine’s Weekend of Horror and is the official poster girl for the magazine. GoreZone Magazine will launch a DVD cover mount starring Emily Booth each month from December 2009.

Emily introduces film premieres on her very own Horror Booth most Wednesdays, Fridays and Saturdays on The Horror Channel. This is a fun and often naughty film prelude to get the audience in the mood for the film premiere, and Emily will often find interesting information on the film to give you additional insider knowledge. Tune in to The Horror Booth most Wednesday and weekends before the10.55 movie on Horror Sky 319 Virgin 170 and Freesat 138!